Power-hungry “toddlers” are trying to take over. Be a grown up and don’t let them.

I've never understand why people want to be "in charge." They must think there's great status, or acclaim, or money. But it's responsibility, criticism, and working far more hours than one will ever be compensated for. That is, if the leader in power is doing things right. I suspect most who crave power are intent … Continue reading Power-hungry “toddlers” are trying to take over. Be a grown up and don’t let them.

How do you teach your kids—and yourself—responsibility? My successes and failures, resulting in house-elfness.

Parents, I have a question: when do you show mercy and rescue a child, or when do you let them suffer with an unforgettable lesson? How do you teach responsibility without potentially damaging your child? That’s a quandary that plagues me nearly every day. I give you Exhibit A, my youngest daughter, age 9. Yesterday … Continue reading How do you teach your kids—and yourself—responsibility? My successes and failures, resulting in house-elfness.

Book 5 Teaser–We’re letting the bullies take charge

In America I feel like we’re facing an election of bullies. Having to choose a president from among the name-callers, threat-issuers, and truth-manglers is like being offered, for our last meal, something from the dumpster behind a toxic waste disposal company. We’re increasingly becoming a nation of whining children, reluctant to take responsibility for our … Continue reading Book 5 Teaser–We’re letting the bullies take charge